An Astral Wonder Jacket is a Women's specific jacket that can take a 2" QR and tether...Kinda hard to find in stock. Not sure if they even make them any more. You could call Astral and ask though...OR we could find out for you. It sounds exactly like what you are looking for.
Also, check out the Sea Wolf. It is built on the Willis Frame, and has TONS of features including towing. It is not Green Jacket burly, but if you are not paddling Class V all the time, you may not need it.
The Astral Buoyancy Sea Wolf PFD