Here's the story on my handle...
I was out with a bunch of friends about a week ago and one of them brought up this post... and he said he thought the subject of the post and my handle were contradictory, just like you have brought up. I see your point. I must say I hadn't ever thought of the handle as objectifying... just a goofy play on 'mountainbuzz' and a story that makes me laugh. Guess "buns" doesn't seemed degrading or suggestive to me, just funny.
I realize everyone draws their own lines - what's acceptable/funny versus offensive/violent. I posted because some recent posts were just poor- the worst ("passing your gfriend around the hottub," etc) even allude to rape. I also sensed that some guys didn't realize how referring to women in derogatory terms makes many women feel insulted. I wouldn't define myself as a hard-core feminist, but being thoughtful is important to me.
I'm glad you asked. Re-reading the thread I linked to above was a nice reminder of the great people I've met paddling and on this board...