All my wife wants to do is ride her horses. All I want to do is run rivers.
We've gotten along fine with that for 17 years.
In fact we dig the fact that we have our own interests and don't feel the need to force them on each other.
When she did try kayaking it sortof took the fun out of it for me because I was worried about her.
Now I plan the float trips and she handles the pack trips and we both can go on each other's adventures when we choose.
It gives the kids options too.
"You're gonna be doin a lot of doobie rolling when youre LIVIN IN A VAN DOWN BY THE RIVER"