Originally Posted by streetdoctor
I'm told I'm a mysogynist homophobe (where did mysogynist come from?)
For me, its the overall tone but specifically the term "pussification of america" which by definition is a vulgar slang that taps into some nasty misogynystic attitudes regarding women and their influence on culture. Pretty clear cut to me. Plenty of information out there you should have stumbled across now that highlights why such sexually derogatory language is considered misogynystic. But you know this and actively write it off as "political correctness" which proves to me you have no interest in investigating how people perceive your hateful language.
Your comments were utterly transphobic. You weren't simply calling a spade a spade but dismissed the well-established requests of an individual and the LGBTQi community at large to gender properly. You did it consistently enough to warrant my assumption that its malicious in intent. You actively mock a basic understanding and compassionate language. You may want to downplay it now but you directed language about gender that was completely unwarranted when dealing with simple issues of someone being an asshole. I mean fuck, you even expanded the scope to utterly dismiss those with completely unrelated diseases.
Who you should really feel bad for is the guy who started this thread. I'm sure this is exactly where he wanted it to go.
You were one of the first people to derail the conversation. He made a simple request and you invalidated it. Who gives a flying fuck what you think a gay person should or shouldn't do regarding seeking kayaking buddies. If he felt the need to seek out other gay kayakers than more power to 'em. And as I highlighted before the entire ploy that this about consistency is bogus. You projected some bogus intent and in the past never harassed or derailed conversations that are inherently awful (like the aforementioned date rape thread). But twice now you have targeted threads involving openly gay or transgendered individuals. And you are shocked when you are called out for it?
And I personally don't value or appreciate going after unrelated components or name calling (though I do sometimes cross that line). I have a hard time defending you though when you MO seems to be antagonistic and outright mean-spirited. Shits coming back on you tenfold. So I can see how it may diminish the critique of you but no sympathy here.
And really...you pulled out the "but I got gay friends" card...talk about the desperate efforts of someone whose bullshit has been fully exposed.